Month: December 2016

  • Carlo Strenger – A renegade Jew with a Universal Message

    Carlo Strenger – A renegade Jew with a Universal Message

  • Welcome to our new website!

    Welcome to our new website!

    This site is dedicated to the memory of Deb Tambor, a young mother who was rejected by her family and community for the ‘sin’ of following her own path and exercising her right to religious freedom. Dedicated on Chanukah, the festival of lights, this site aims to spread light to those who are left in…

  • Lighting the Way – By Rabbi Adam Chalom

    Lighting the Way – By Rabbi Adam Chalom

    The Maccabees make complicated heroes. Yes, they stood up for being Jewish against forced assimilation to Greek culture. And yes, they achieved Jewish independence for a hundred years, a model for Jewish self-defense and dignity that resonates even today. At the same time, they were religious fanatics, the haredim of their day: the first person…

  • Chanukah: When We Lost And They Won

    Chanukah: When We Lost And They Won

    by Peter Walters Remember Chanukah – dreidels, chocolate coins, latkes, lamp-lighting, all that stuff? Great wasn’t it? One of the really great things about Chanukah is that it’s almost as good as Christmas, but without the whole goy-guilt. Remember how it was put: the time when the few defeated the many; the small beat the great;…

  • From Anger to Forgiveness

    From Anger to Forgiveness

    Several years have past since I wrote about anger during the early part of my journey. These days I am in a good place emotionally, and I have two miracle children, born thanks to advanced medical technology. I don’t hold grudges, but who would I be angry at anyway? I no longer believe God is…

  • Chanukkah On My Own Derech

    Chanukkah On My Own Derech

    Searching for a way to bring light and meaning to the upcoming Jewish holiday? Here’s a great resource from the Society for Humanistic Judaism: http://www.shj.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Hanukkah_eight_lights.pdf

  • Four BIG misconceptions about Chanukkah

    Four BIG misconceptions about Chanukkah

  • Shame

    Shame

    As Baal Teshuvas, we had done everything right, even choosing to make aliyah so we could guarantee our kids a Jewish education. That dream dashed after a year completely opposite of what we’d expected, we came back home to a bad economy and dwindling savings, a good chunk of which went to a year of…

  • Anger

    Anger

    I had never been angry enough at God to go against what I thought were his wise teachings. But after my second miscarriage in three years of trying to start a family, I was not simply depressed like the first time. This wasn’t just a random fluke, not only was conceiving a struggle (we had…

  • Resentment

    Resentment

    At first I had trouble thinking up any sort of resentment I have developed on this journey.  In my case, my progression towards my own derech has in no way been caused by anyone in the frum community who may have wronged me, and so generally don’t carry any resentment towards my frum family, rabbanim,…